It’s simple…by spending time in the Word and praying – God will teach you how to look at your current situation & circumstances in the way He sees it. After the Resurrection but before His Ascension, Jesus appeared to the Disciples and opened their minds (and ours) …removing the spiritual blindness & slowness of heart that had hindered them from fully understanding and accepting His Message. (Luke 24:45) In explaining the Holy Spirit’s workings, Paul in I Corinthians 2:11-12 wrote that only the Holy Spirit knows God’s thoughts and gives us this understanding freely as we search the Scriptures & pray for guidance. For God’s ways are not our ways, and only He can see the beginning from the end. So, when life is a confusing mess, go to the Author and Perfecter of your faith and ask Him to show you His perspective.