As a child, we all seek validation from those who are important to us. But if they are distant or absent, our life becomes that of constantly seeking approval, confirmation, and just wanting to please…no matter what that looks like. And this doesn’t stop when we reach adulthood…we still desire to be heard, understood, and valued. I Thessalonians 5:11 shows then the importance of positive affirmation from fellow Believers…”Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” Aptly spoken words of encouragement and comfort can not only build up someone’s faith, but it can also validate what’s happening in their life. But more importantly, it can stir them to seek their worth from God rather than people… offering them guidance on how to build a strong identity based on God’s love and truth and not man.
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