Month: November 2025

This so reminds me of the story in Luke 10:29 where after Jesus had said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” A man wanted Him to give a comprehensive definition of just who constituted a neighbor. That’s because first-century Jews had various ideas about who was included in the category of neighbor…limiting the term to community, clan, or religious affiliation. And the same goes for today…it’s easy to love people within familiar groups. It’s a lot harder to move outside the comfortable confines of what we know and tell the world about Jesus. But just warming a pew every Sunday will never fulfill The Great Commission…for Jesus said “Go and make disciples of all nations…” (Matthew 28:19)

As Ephesians 4:24 tells us, righteousness and holiness go hand and hand, for we are to, “put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.” And this righteousness of God comes to realization only through faith in Jesus Christ and His work. It can’t be achieved by any of our actions, but only through obedience to Christ. It tells us in the 23rd Psalm that “He leads me in paths of righteousness”…but we need to follow…which is what holiness is all about. You may know it as sanctification – the deliberate decision and process of becoming holy like God…a being set apart for His purpose. (Romans 6:19) And as we follow Him, God works on our character. (Romans 5:4) All the while as we deal with our conduct…bringing it into alignment with the Gospel. (Philippians 1:27)

Overthinking is the process of going over and over something in our mind…it’s the hamster wheel of anxiety that traps us in an excessive, repetitive cycle of “what if”, that can only feed our fears and worries. But this verse is very clear…we are to throw our burdens onto the Lord, for only He can sustain, protect, and support us through any difficult time. (Psalm 55:22) This starts first by surrendering all those worries and trusting the Lord to handle them. It then requires humility and reliance on our part…trusting God’s strength and wisdom as our deliverer. (Psalm 40:17) Now I admit, it’s hard to jump off that hamster wheel…but if we do, we can find peace, comfort, new found strength in Him.

This is a song of praise, deliverance, and hope…a victory song sung by Moses and the people of Israel as they celebrate a God-given rescue. A deliverance so certain and sure that fear melts into faith…and trust blots out anxiety. This great song of praise turns their weakness into strength and reminds them that, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10) And as this song continues and unfolds, so does the vivid realization that salvation comes only from the Lord and, “Blessed is the man who trusts in You.” (Psalm 84:12)

The old saying goes, “You will reap what you sow.” And here the Old Testament prophet, Hosea, was condemning Israel for this and their wickedness and dishonesty… calling instead, for mass repentance and reform. When we sow seeds of mercy, kindness, compassion, and forgiveness, we will receive a harvest of blessings from God. But first we must break up the hardened soil of the fallow ground of our hearts and minds by diligently seeking the Lord. But rather than cultivating a fruitful relationship with God, we can behave like the Israelites who instead planted, reaped, and ate evilness, deception, lies, and dependence on their own strength rather than God’s.

Think back to when you first met your spouse…you spent hours together talking and getting to know everything about each other. For it was your attraction to them that spurred your desire for a deeper relationship. The Apostle Paul’s most passionate longing…of not just a greater mental awareness, but of a deep personal union with Jesus Christ was summed up well in Philippians 3:10, when he wrote, “That I may know Him and the power of His Resurrection…” In John 10:14, Jesus said, “I am the good shepherd. I know My own and My own know Me.” This type of intimacy is much more than a mental grasp, it’s an intense personal understanding and commitment of our will. In the 11th Chapter of Daniel it highlights the contrast between those who were seduced by man’s flattery, deceit, and manipulation… leading many away from their faith in God, and those who knew God by their strong relationship and personal commitment… and stood firm. (Daniel 11:32)

The other day I read this and it really got me thinking…”An egg’s true value lies in its broken state. Thus I must strive to discover the joy in surrendering my life, my todays, my tomorrows, my everything to the Lord.” But brokenness is not a characteristic we prize, nor is surrender, or obedience to anything or one. But until we willingly come under God’s authority and His rule and reign… faith and righteousness are just empty words we throw around for show. That’s because obedience is the fruit of faith, and leads to righteousness. (Romans 6:16) We will then discover that obedient submission to the call of God will open up unlimited possibilities as we allow His plan and purpose to play out in our life.

For the last five days I’ve looked at very practical and common sense ways to support those who are in mourning, with the last one not only being a no-brainer, but in all reality, should have been the first thing I wrote about. We need to lift the grieving up in prayer. In Paul’s letter to Timothy, he instructed him in the various aspects of prayer, “I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone.” (I Timothy 2:1) We have in our prayer arsenal many different types of prayer…from supplication, petition, and graditutde…to actually standing in the gap for that person.(Ezekiel 22:30) So we need to employee all these as we cover the person in prayer from the very start…asking the Holy Spirit for enlightenment and illumination rather than being nosy or a gossip. And whenever the Lord brings that person to mind… pray…for you may never know about their unspoken cries of the heart…but God does…and He’s given you the great honor of standing in the gap on their behalf.

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the Law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2) This Royal or Supreme Law tells us to love our neighbor as ourselves…reflecting the true essence of Christian love. Thus, we should offer support to those who are grieving in ways that truly help. Now this doesn’t mean we use the offhand but well worn remark of, “If you need anything, just give me a call.” It may make us feel good…but it’s only a hollow remark to the person struggling. Why? You’re putting the responsibility back on them to manage their lives, when their mind is numb with loss and filled with indifference. They are exhausted, overwhelmed, and too flooded with grief to even realize what needs to be done around them. This is when active listening, reading between the lines, and heeding the Holy Spirit’s leading should be implemented to intervene to help in practical ways. It may be as simple as asking yourself, “What would I need right now?” then, just do it.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1) Everyone’s “Season” of mourning is different. That’s because mourning isn’t uniform or simple. It’s a deeply personal and unique process as the person slowly moves towards a “new normal”. Our job then is to allow the person the time to do so. But we tend to judge their journey according to a loss we’ve experienced…or we’re so uncomfortable with their grieving process that we push them to just “get over it.” Neither is constructive, kind, or beneficial in helping the person. Psalm 31:15 tells us that, “all our times are in God’s hands.” for that’s where grieving and mourning are safest…in the refuge of our Heavenly Father’s most capable hands… as He gives all the time needed to heal. And so we must also follow that example of grace, mercy, and love in a nonjudgmental way.