Proverbs 12:8 ” A man is praised according to his wisdom, but men with warped minds are despised.”

If you profess Jesus as your Lord & Savior, people are watching you. They want to know if your character, natural attitude, and prevailing tendencies are just for use on Sunday mornings only, or if they extend throughout the week. They’re watching you in difficult situations at work, school, and home…keenly observing if the talk you talk matches the walk you walk. That’s because it’s so easy to fall prey to our muddled inner nature…where we’re easily led astray when provoked. They’re watching you, not even realizing that they’re actually seek the Lord through you as you imitate Him.  

Philippians 1:15-17 ” It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. The latter do so in love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the Gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains.”

Paul is writing this letter from prison. The two groups of people he’s writing about here both preach Christ, but it’s their motives & attitudes that are starkly different. One group preaches Christ in a righteous & noble fashion. Their love for Paul is real, and they understand fully that he is “In chains for Christ.” The other group is envious of Paul’s stature and following, even from prison…and respond negatively to his success. Yes, they do preach Christ in a fashion, but it’s out of self-seeking duplicity…and a vying for power & prestige. To them, preaching Christ has become a competition… and a spreading of dissension among the brethren.

II Corinthians 4:18 ” So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”

Faith is seeing His light with your heart… when all your eyes see is darkness. The Holiday Season is difficult for many to navigate through. There can be sadness from losing a loved one, contending with our own declining health, or stepping on eggshells around a ongoing family feud. All our eyes see is gloom, anxiety, and pain. But it tells us here to not fix our eyes on the darkness but rather on God’s light. I John 1:5 says that, “God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all.” And when we do seek His light with all our heart, it’s like a lamp shining brightly into the darkness around us…dispelling the somber murkiness.  Or as the great Faith Chapter in Hebrews begins, “Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” (Hebrews 11:1)

Psalm 86:16 ” Turn to me and have mercy on me; grant Your strength to Your servant…”

Taking care of yourself is an important and essential part of taking care of others. Right now you may have a newborn in the house, a gaggle of toddlers, a elderly parent, or a infirmed spouse demanding all your time, energy, and attention. But if you do not attend to your our physical, mental, and spiritual wellbeing…they could be potentially going it alone without you. The stats are eye opening…30% of caregivers die before the people they are caring for. Caregiving demands result in increased stress, which results in poor health because of neglect, which ultimately takes it toll. When it comes to caregiving of any type, it makes sense to “Put your own oxygen mask on before you assist others.” as well as looking to God for peace, comfort, strength, and wisdom. ”I am poor and needy; may the Lord think of me.” (Psalm 40:17)

John 20:29 ” Jesus said, ‘Because you have seen Me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.’ “

Think about this for a moment…both fear & faith demand that we believe in something we cannot see. Fear saturates our mind with the “what ifs”…(what if this happens, or that happens)…all the while making it difficult to think clearly as these unseen scenarios swirl around in our head. But it’s almost more difficult to believe by faith that God sovereignly controls all our circumstances, including this one. We are told to live by faith & not by sight (II Corinthians 5:7), which is so easy to say and yet so hard to do. So here we stand at the crossroads of fear & faith, with both demanding we make a choice.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”

God causes all things to happen in their own time…according to His plan, purpose, and timetable. Psalm 31:15 reminds us that all our “times” are in God’s hand. But what about the times when we impatiently wait, asking Him over & over, “When Lord?” Charles Spurgeon once wrote, “Mercy may seem slow, but it is sure. The Lord in unfailing wisdom has appointed a time for the outgoings of His gracious power, and God’s time is the best time.” So remember, most of the time, our timing isn’t God’s timing…and we have to decide to be content with that… knowing that His timing is always proper, appropriate, and fitting.

John 14:27 ” Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.”

Jesus gave the common Hebrew word peace a new & deeper meaning when He spoke this to His disciples. When He told them He was giving them “His peace” it meant a true reconciliation with God, purchased by His death on the Cross. But many times as we’re caring for a loved one at home this peace is replaced by worry. It’s as if worry is a intrusive houseguest that refuses to leave…reminding us in detail of every problem, every health concern, and everything we have no control over. But we need to then remember that when our Lord speaks peace, He creates peace…because, “The Words I have spoken to you are Spirit and they are life.” (John 6:63) And so with this new found peace, we can push worry out the door, look fully into our Lord’s face, and receive His quiet contentment for another day.

Galatians 5:24 ” Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires.”

The Cross of Christ not only broke the grip of the Law, but it broke the grip of our flesh…the word crucified here used metaphorically to mean our flesh has been crucified along with its affections and lusts…putting it all to death through our faith in Jesus Christ. What this means is a giving up of my right to myself, my natural independence, and my self-will. But our corrupt nature won’t leave quietly & without a fight…for even a child can tell you what’s evil, morally bad, and wrong…but what we do all the time is debate over what’s good…splitting hairs over our definition of what’s “good & good enough” in order to still have our own way. As Romans 6:6 tells us, sin reigned in our “old self” but it was crucified with Him so that the body of sin might be done away with…destroying the reign of sin in our bodies.

Acts 18:9-10 ” One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: ‘Do not be afraid; keep on speaking, do not be silent. For I am with you, and no one is going to attack and harm you, because I have many people in this city.’ “

In this Scripture the Lord is promising Paul that his labor will be fruitful…for even though many had not yet heard or had the chance to believe in the Gospel Message…God still knew them. But Paul wasn’t the only frightened Believer when it came to sharing the Gospel. In Acts 9:10 we see a fearful Ananias being told in a vision to go and lay hands on a blinded man named Saul, the most ardent persecutor of the fledgling Church. But what if Ananias had allowed his fear to silence him and the conversion of Saul to Paul was delayed or even derailed? When Jesus gave the Great Commission to Go, Teach, and Preach the Good News boldly… remember He has promised always to be with us and that we have nothing to fear.

John 16:33 “In this world you will have troubles.”

You’ve probably heard someone say this before, “God won’t give you more than you can handle.” And while it’s a stab at comforting a friend or loved one who’s going through difficulties…it’s neither Biblical nor correct. But what it really is, is the idol of our self-sufficiency…hiding behind “spiritual sounding” words that are not found in the Bible. Jesus was very frank with His disciples here in John…you will have troubles. It was realism but with the promised hope that He would be with them (and us) in the midst of all our tribulations. For all we have to do is look at the world today…people are at this very moment dealing with more than they can handle. The only difference being, some are asking for God’s help, but many not. Countless of them are bearing pain, suffering, persecution, and fear alone…while others are patiently enduring with the Presence of God along side them offering peace & comfort. It’s a sure thing…there will be times when all of us will be given more than we can handle. And we can either stiffen our resolve and go it alone…or seek the Lord’s help that He might rescue us. (Psalm 34:19 & II Timothy 3:11)