James 3:2 ” We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check.”

The Book of James focuses on the fact that none of us is perfect… none of us is righteous.  And especially when it comes to keeping a tight rein on our tongue.  In Matthew 12,  the Pharisees were accusing Jesus of being Beelzebub, the prince of demons, after healing a man…  but Jesus knew their thoughts and reckless words, and told them at the Judgment Day all would have to give account for every careless word spoken…”For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” (Matthew 12:37)  Nothing gets us into more trouble than idle conversations or blurting out something before we’ve thought it through.  And as James observes,  if we can’t keep our tongue in check, how can we expect to keep our whole body from stumbling.

Judges 12:4 ” Jephthah then called together the men of Gilead and fought against Ephraim.”

After winning the battle, the Gileadites captured the fords of the Jordan River where you could cross into Ephraim.  It tells us in verses 5-6 that the Gileadites then conducted a linguistic test on any man trying to cross back over to Ephraim.  They would simply ask them to say the word “shibboleth”.  Because of the Ephraim dialect, even though the man would deny being an Ephraimite… he would mispronounce the word.   42,000 Ephraimites were killed there because their tongues betrayed them.   The tongue may be one of the smallest body parts we have…but it can undoubtedly  get us into the most trouble.

Proverbs 26: 28 ” A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin.”

Words can cut deep…and if they’re deceitful on top of that, they’re deadly.   Why then do we choose to lie?  It’s simple, if the truth doesn’t serve us well – we lie.  If we want to get back at someone we dislike – we’ll lie.  If we want our way – we sweet talk and flatter…saying what we know the other person wants to hear.  Lying can become a way of life – where no two stories are ever the same, and we say whatever will get us the results we desire.