Colossians 3:19 ” Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.”

I cringe inwardly every time I over hear a married couple bickering in public.  It hurts my heart to hear a husband belittle his wife, and she return it with a volley of  sharp and biting comments.  The type of love in this verse that the Apostle Paul is talking about is a love rooted in the mind and will of the person, and means to value, esteem, prize…to treat as precious.  The fastest way to embitter a person is to make them feel devalued, worthless, and unappreciated.

Colossians 3:18 ” Wives, submit to your husbands, as it is fitting in the Lord.”

To place in proper order…   Paul wasn’t teaching that women were inferior to men, quite the opposite.  In an age when women were downgraded and looked upon as mere property – Paul declared that in Christ there was no distinction in status between men and women (Gal. 3:28).  He had even called the married couple, Priscilla and Aquila,  by the same word…synergous – which meant “fellow workers.”  God is a God of order,  and by freely placing ourselves in submission in an orderly fashion under our husbands, we allow the blessings of the Lord to flow.

Psalm 40:5 ” Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders You have done. The things You planned for us no one can recount to You; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare.”

I think when I get to Heaven, the Lord will show me a little slide show.  The theme will be – all the countless times He has intervened on my behalf,  saving me from  dangerous situations, and even sparing my life.  I don’t think our mind can even grasp how often God has rescued  us from ourselves and our dumb thinking.  When that slide show is over, I will then finally come to realize the enormity of His work in my life…how unaware I was about most of it…and I will love Him even more.

Isaiah 25:1 “O Lord, You are my God; I will exalt You and praise Your name, for in perfect faithfulness You have done marvelous things, things planned long ago.”

God has a plan and purpose for your life.  It was formulated before the creation of time.  He has put in place wonderful and miraculous things in order for you to accomplish it.  He is trustworthy and steadfast in  His objectives for you…never wanting you to fail.  You may think God can’t use you…but you are oh so wrong.  You are exactly what He’s looking for…you have been placed on this earth at this very moment in time to accomplish great things in His name.

Acts 28:31 ” Boldly and without hindrance he preached the Kingdom of God and taught about the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Paul was under house arrest in Rome and confined for 2 years in a little house under constant guard by the Roman soldiers.  He could have had quite a pity party…but he instead chose to use his situation for good.  Yes, he was confined in one spot…but his spirit was free, for the Kingdom of God was within his heart.  He could have been intimidated by the soldiers, but he chose not to have restrictions and limitations placed on God’s Word that he preached.   Paul’s fearless teaching to all who wandered into that house…including the soldiers listening, was a way of him saying, “What can man do to me?  My physical body may be incarcerated, but my soul is free.”

Proverbs 13:10 ” Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.”

Taking offense against another person only fosters conflict and produces  anger.  When our feelings are hurt, we rise up in righteous indignation and can easily allow arrogance to take over at that moment.  We feel disrespected and insulted, not even listening to the wise counsel…for all we hear is an attack on our  belief system…even if that belief system is  corrupted.  The world likes to take offense  over the craziest things…But as a Believer, we need to be wary of allowing pride to color our interactions with others.   Proverbs 9:9 states, ” Instruct a wise man and he will be wiser still; teach a righteous man and he will add to his learning.”

Acts 18: 9-10 ” One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: ‘ Do not be afraid; Keep on speaking, do not be silent. For I am with you, and no one is going to attack and harm you, because I have many people in this city.’ “

Satan would like us to think we’re out there working for the Lord alone…like the Lone Ranger, isolated and unaided by others.  Satan would like us to be fearful in talking to others about the Lord…not wanting to offend…wanting rather,  to be “politically correct”, even if it goes against the Word of God.  Satan would like us  to keep quiet, not rocking the boat of this modern liberal society.  Satan doesn’t care if we read the Bible or pray…just as long as we don’t do it in public.  But Satan also knows the power of the spoken Word, and what a transformation could take place… if Christians weren’t silent.

I Chronicles 11:10 These were the Chiefs of David’s mighty men – they, together with all Israel, gave his kingship strong support to extend it over the whole land, as the Lord had promised…”

All of Israel came together to support King David…just as we are to advocate for our local Pastor and Church Leadership.  Being a Pastor isn’t just about running a business…it’s interacting with the congregation…a delicate balance of  administration, counsel, compassion, and grit.  Be that mighty warrior for your Pastor…pray for him daily, encourage him often, speak well of him in public.  Pray also for the Leadership at your Church…instilling confidence and hope whenever you can into their lives, for most are volunteering their time, energy, and commitment for the Lord.

Ezra 4:24 ” Thus the work on the house of God in Jerusalem came to a stand-still until the second year of the reign of Darius king of Persia.”

The book of Ezra recounts the efforts of the Jewish exiles who returned from Babylon to rebuild the Temple.  Sixteen years would pass between the laying of the foundation and when work would take up again.  God gave them the vision for the Temple…it was started…but then suspended.  Just like the exiles, we too hear from God and plunge forward only to be sometimes detained.  Sadly, it’s usually at that stoppage we throw in the towel and  claim failure.  But just because there’s a delay doesn’t mean it’s a defeat. The Lord never goes back on His promises, and any vision He’s given you…even if it’s been years…is still viable in His eyes.  Remember, a delay doesn’t mean a defeat.

Revelation 4:8 ” Day and night they never stop saying: ‘Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty, Who was and is, and is to come.’ “

The Old Testament Prophet Isaiah also saw this vision in  Isaiah 6:3.  He saw the Lord on His throne with all the seraphs calling to one another, “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty; the whole earth is full of His glory.”  These magnificent creatures are continually encircling God’s throne giving glory, honor, and thanks to the Lord…And just think, someday we too will be able to join in that glorious chorus!