Ephesians 4:27 ” …and do not give the devil a foothold.”

The area of our lives that the devil is most easily able to gain a foothold… is when we have unforgiveness in our hearts.  II Corinthians 2:10-11 tells us that we need to forgive in order that Satan might not outwit  us.  When we harbor unforgiveness, we allow the devil to capture a place in our heart…setting up a position – a base of operations for further advancement against us.   We need to remain then vigilant…forgiving and forgetting quickly, so as not to allow him the ability to take advantage over us.

Job 36: 13 ” The godless in heart harbor resentment…”

Every once in a while I  come across a person who enjoys holding onto bitterness.  They  recount to me impressive  dates and details of  past hurts and offenses.  They wear these perceived insults as badges,  ever brooding over them…playing  them over and over in their minds.  Pathetically, their vindictiveness and obsession has literally  taken over their entire life.  This root of bitterness has taken ahold,  and grown into an ugly creature that  no one can hardly recognize.

Colossians 3:21 ” Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.”

We all want the very best for our children.  We also may want them to succeed in areas where we  didn’t…like Sports.  But just because that “mini-me” looks like you,  doesn’t mean he has any desire to be the football , basketball, or baseball star you weren’t back in the day.   Pushing kids into activities they aren’t excited about will only exasperate and infuriate everyone.  Each one of our children are unique  individuals,  with God- designed gifts, talents, and passions.  By building on their strengths, we can foster what the Lord wants for them, rather than what we’d like to live vicariously through them.