Tag Archive | pain of loss

II Samuel 22:7 ” In my distress I called to the Lord; I called out to my God. From His Temple He heard my voice; my cry came to His ears.”

Unfortunately, when we become Believers,  God doesn’t wrap us up in cotton batting and place us carefully in a box for safe keeping.  No, we’re subject to every evil and despicable thing the world can throw at us.  But in the midst of all the pain, suffering, anguish and grief,  we as Believers have one thing the rest of the world doesn’t… when we cry out to the Lord…He hears us.  This verse says that He hears my voice…He knows and recognizes my voice above the din of the whole universe.  But God doesn’t stop there…He acts when He hears our cry to Him…for when we summon the Lord,  He will come to our aid.

Psalm 88:18 ” You have taken my companions and loved ones from me; the darkness is my closest friend.”

I’ve seen this first hand with my elderly parents the past year.  Almost weekly,  a close friend, neighbor or acquaintance dies…usually from old age, but that still  doesn’t lessen the blow of their passing.  Even though death and dying is a part of life, we still  mourn and experience sadness in our loss.  The Psalmist here is lamenting to God that his friends, parents, or maybe children are gone…leaving him in a very dark place in his life.  We all at sometime in our lives will feel just like this Psalmist…grappling with the loneliness and sorrow of losing  loved ones.  And that’s OK.  Giving ourselves permission to grieve is a healthy and  vital part of the grieving process.  It’s OK also to feel lonely.  That person we’ve known so well has left, and what remains is a void…a gapping  hole in our heart of palatable  sadness.  It’s at that time that cherished memories help to bridge the chasm of grief.  Sharing those memories with others is also a way of slowly moving out of that dark place into the light.  For God knows exactly how you feel…He understands your pain…you may feel lonely, but with Him,  you’ll never be alone.