The world tells us to do whatever will make us happy at the moment.  We’re also encouraged to look out for #1…and that the desire for immediate gratification is normal.  But Christians are not called to do what makes us happy…we are called to do what glorifies God.   Honoring God in whatever we do will quickly strip away all of our selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered ambitions and behaviors, for we will take on a servant’s heart.  And servant-hood is all about others…not about self.