Maybe you know one…maybe you are one. What am I talking about? A woman, wife and/or mother who self-sabotages and deliberately destroys her household by her contentious manner. The old saying “Happy wife happy life” is taken to the extreme as her husband and children walk on eggshells as to not evoke her wrath…the whole house becoming a war zone with land mines of rage buried everywhere. But many woman don’t even realize how they are ruining their family’s life…that’s because they are in deep personal pain and have never dealt with it. So what can be done? Proverbs 24:3 says, “By wisdom a house is built…” Wisdom seeks out counsel, addresses past wounds, and accepts responsibility for actions…and changes for the better with the Lord’s help.