Here in Acts, Paul is remembering the very words of the Lord Jesus as He spoke about The Golden Rule of doing unto others as you would want them to do unto you. (Luke 6:30-31) So holding on to this thought, let’s look at both sides of giving & getting. “Call me if you need something.” This is usually our stock expression when a friend is in need…I know, because I’ve been guilty of saying it too often. It makes us feel better, but in reality does nothing for the other person other than putting the responsibility on them to make the phone call. But in their defense, they may not even know what they need, for their world has become a jumble of Doctor’s Appointments, Home Health visits, tracking of new medications…not to mention the daily mundane running of the household of laundry, dishes, & groceries. My mantra for all my Nursing Staff used to be, “A good Nurse sees a need and fills it, but an excellent Nurse anticipates a need and fills it.” So put yourself in their place & ask the Lord what you might be able to do…and then follow through. But also remember Caregiver/Friend in need, nobody can read your mind…and even though your brain may feel like oatmeal, you must make your needs known to those offering to help. Finally, As a friend, don’t stop checking in with them. I know it’s easy to dismiss it with a, “I don’t want to bother them.” But a short conversation shows your care & concern, gives your friend a chance to vent, and gives you the opportunity to encourage them in Jesus’s Name.
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