Tag Archive | agape love

Psalm 89:2 ” I will declare that Your love stands firm forever, that You established Your faithfulness in heaven itself.”

It goes on to tell us in Psalm 36:5-6, “Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens, Your faithfulness to the skies.  Your righteousness is like the mighty mountains, Your justice like the great deep.”  I have the opportunity today to be “out in the middle of no where” in North Dakota.  Sitting here looking at the massive expanse of horizon, it seems like you can see forever.  But this vastness around me can in no way compare to the width and breadth of our Heavenly Father’s love for us.  For His mercy for us is indefinite, brought into existence before the very beginning of time by the God of eternity…a ever-lasting and forever God.

Romans 12:18 ” If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

We can’t force others into peaceful co-existence with us…we can only control how we react and behave around angry people.  You know the ones…people with huge chips on their shoulders…always thinking the world is out to get them.  It takes a conscious  decision of the will on our part not to take the bait  when attacked.  It takes lots of deep breaths and determination not to lower ourselves down to that level…and sometimes, it takes just walking away for a few minutes to regain our composure and pray.   “Lord, help me look past the angry hostility and see rather the hurt, the fear, the frustration.  Allow me Lord to see this person through Your eyes and how I may show Your love to them.” Amen

I John 2:10-11 ” Whoever loves his brother lives in the light, and there is nothing in him to make him stumble. But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness; he does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded him.”

I love nightlights!  I’ll admit I have at least 8 spread throughout the house, casting their subtle radiance so I won’t trip and fall in the dark.  God’s truth is like a nightlight into our darkness…showing us His way so we won’t stumble.  But when we choose to not live by the light of His truth, we are easily deceived and blinded by lies that only foster hatred and distrust against our fellow-man.  When we love one another, the light of God’s truth illuminates situations, obstacles, and personalities for what they really are…exposing hurting hearts and revealing with honesty how we’re more alike than different.

Hebrews 6:10 ” God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them.”

Faith is demonstrated by its works.  And when we serve and care for other’s needs,  we are actively showing the Lord’s unconditional (Agape) love for us.  But don’t think that every time you help others it has to be big, grand, or showy…for  Jesus tells us in Matthew 10:42 that just offering a cup of cold water to someone who needs it is a good work.    In fact, the very basic definition of the Greek word for “help”  in this verse means to wait tables.  God will never overlook or ignore your good deeds –  regardless of how small or insignificant you might  think they are.  For what you may see as just a simple kind act…the person receiving it sees Jesus.

I John 3:16 ” This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.”

Without hesitation I know you’d answer a resounding “Yes!”  to my question of whether you’d die for your spouse or children.  But if we look closely at this verse, we’re not being asked to do that.  Rather, we’re being directed to lay down our lives for our fellow Christians .   OK wait,  you want me to sacrifice for who?  My family is one thing, but a neighbor or friend or somebody I hardly know at Church…I don’t know if I can do that.   But when Jesus died on that Cross He didn’t pick and choose who He was dying for…He died for all.   In John 10:11 it says, ” I am the good Shepherd.  The good Shepherd lays down His life for the sheep.”   To love one another with the Agape love that Christ first showed us is to be willing to be poured out like a drink offering for our brothers…regardless of who they are.

Colossians 2:2 ” My purpose is that they may be encouraged in heart and united in love…”

As people waited in the crowded lobby, I over-heard a kind looking elderly gentleman ask the young lady seated  next to him a rather probing question.  She was bent over her phone, oblivious to anything or one around her, when he asked, “What would you be doing right now if you weren’t on your phone?”  His tone of voice was gentle and reflective, which completely caught the young lady off guard and rendered her speechless.  His question though got my mind whirling!  How can we  show the agape love of Christ to others when we’re folded up like a flower over our phones?  How can we be Jesus to those around us when we totally disengaged from our surroundings…detached and indifferent?  This verse says we are to be united in love which takes dedicated  involvement and connection…not self-isolation and selfishness.

Philippians 1:3 ” I thank my God every time I remember you.”

When the Lord brings to mind a person…what do you do?  You may say to yourself, “I haven’t touched base with that person in a long time, I wonder how they’re doing…and leave it at that.  But have you ever thought that there’s a reason the Lord laid on your heart that individual?  God wants you to do two things.  The first is to pray, thanking God for them and asking for His Will to be done in their life.  But secondly, He wants you to contact them.  We are to love one another, and your encouragement may be the very thing they need that day.