Psalm 34:8 ” Taste and see that the Lord is good.”

There are certain things that someone can attempt to describe to us, but until we can experience it for ourselves, we just don’t get it.  Take instance,  the first time you saw the ocean and that vast expanse of churning water…no amount of prior description someone gave you could even come close to you seeing it with your own eyes.  The same thing happens with Jesus.  We may hear about Him all our lives…but it’s not until we take that personal step of faith and experience Him, that we can then know true joy, peace and hope in our lives.

I Corinthians 13:7 ” Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

The word that stands out in this Scripture to me is the word always…repeated four times in this short sentence.  So, what does always really mean?  Well, according to Webster, it means,  at all times.  Thus, this verse shows us what true unselfish love should look like.  It’s the type of love that is constantly looking for the good in people…believing in and expecting for the very best.  It’s a love that will bear up under a load of misery, adversity, persecution, and provocation with faith, hope, and a smile…thinking of others first.   And just like the love of Christ, unselfish love never fails, and never gives up on others.

I Corinthians 13:6 ” Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.”

We have become so accustomed to hearing half-truths, falsehoods, and the spinning of the account to serve ones self…it’s hard to identify truth from lies now a days.  Selfish love deliberately mixes truth with falsehoods to best serve the present situation.  They conveniently leave out details that might incriminate or point the finger to them…having no regard for others.  Selfish love is only interested in its own welfare…not caring how it may impact another person.  The love of Christ is glad to tell the truth…the correct and accurate rendition…not the sugar-coated half-truth that might get us out of trouble.  Also,  unselfish love doesn’t have to remember what story was told to who…if it’s the truth from the beginning.

I Corinthians 13:5 ” Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”

If you want to see what a person is truly made of…put them in a long line, in the hot sun, waiting for something that may or may not arrive on time.  That’s when frustration and impatience boils over into selfish love.  This verse is interesting in that all it speaks of are examples of selfish love…of self-centered, looking out for #1 love that only thinks of itself.  We all have the opportunity daily to choose what type of love we’ll portray  to the world…the love of Christ or the selfish love of the world.  And as Believers, we are to be an example of Christ’s love to others…unfortunately, whether we’re a good example or a bad one.

I Corinthians 13:4 ” Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”

For the next few days I’m going to writing on the familiar verses in the 13th Chapter of I Corinthians, also known as the Love Chapter.  These verses tell us what Christian love should look like.  But even more importantly, they tell us what selfish self-centered love looks like.  The love Jesus taught of was an unconditional agape love…love that is compassionate, and understanding…refusing to retaliate or repay evil with evil.   But the love the world teaches of is egotistical, self-absorbed, and arrogant….refusing to put others first.  These verses will look at both types of love…selfish and unselfish, and their impact on the world.

James 1:26 ” If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.”

Holding my tongue.  It might be a very small body part, but it sometimes requires herculean strengthen not to blurt out what I’m thinking!…especially if it’s catty or unkind.  And I find if I’m not careful,  my manner of speech will quickly start to resemble the  non believer group I’m part of…especially if it’s a grip session…or worse yet – a gossip session!  One of my favorite Proverbs says, “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps his mouth shut.”  I may be doing a wonderful job serving God…but if my speech says the opposite…it’s all meaningless.

Job 4:5 ” But now trouble comes to you, and you are discouraged; it strikes you, and you are dismayed.”

Eliphaz was one of Job’s three friends that had come to comfort him after the devastating loss of  his children and all his livestock.  In this Scripture he is telling Job trouble is part of life.   When everything is going along smoothly in our lives…Life is good.  We’re happy, healthy, and prone to take God for granted.  But when trouble hits…when we’re stricken with illness, or touched by loss…we change.  We become frustrated and weary when illness strikes.   We become bewildered and fearful of our lack of control during times of loss.  It’s our attitude that changes…not God.  For God remains the same…whether in good times or in bad.  He’s right there beside you…offering comfort and hope no matter what you’re going through today.

II Kings 20:5 ” Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of My people, This is what the Lord, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will heal you. On the third day from now you will go up to the Temple of the Lord.”

King Hezekiah became ill to the point of death when Isaiah went and said to him, “Put your house in order, you’re going to die.”  But it then says that Hezekiah prayed and wept before the Lord and the Lord relented.  The human mind would look at this as God yielding, changing His mind, or just being fickle.  But to God, relenting is grounded in compassion not whimsy.  Psalm 106:45 says, “…and out of His great love He relented.”  Though it may appear to us that God was changing His plan… according to His divine perspective…nothing changed.

Hebrews 12:15 ” See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.”

Most of us would be quick to deny any root of bitterness in our lives…but let’s think about it for a moment.  Do you hold a grudge against someone who in your eyes disrespected you?  Or are you resentful against someone who hurt your pride and caused you pain and embarrassment?  You may not  be able to even remember the details of the incident…but still anger rises up every time you think of that person.  A root of bitterness can take on many faces and lie deep within…so deep that we even lie to ourselves about its very existence.  But know that bitterness poisons your life and hinders God’s work in and through you.  The answer is forgiveness…allowing the past to be the past.  For forgiveness is not meant for the perpetrator, but for yourself.

Lamentations 3:37 ” Who can speak and have it happen if the Lord has not decreed it? “

As it tells us in Proverbs, the Lord’s purpose always prevails…for no pivotal event in the course of history happens unless the Lord first ordains it.  And for the human mind this is far too difficult to take in and understand.  But to add to this confusion, the next verse goes on to say, “Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that both calamities and good things come?” (Lam. 3:38)  That’s when we need to be reminded that God’s ways are not our ways, but that God is always in control.  For it tells us in Psalm 33:9-11, “For He spoke, and it came to be; He commanded, and it stood firm.  The Lord foils the plans of the nations; He thwarts the purposes of the people.  But the plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of His heart through all generations.”