To answer the “where” in both questions above…it’s God who is the source of all wisdom and ability. And He is more than eager to impart His wisdom and understanding to us when we ask. For it tells us in James 1:5, “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God who gives generously to all without finding fault and it will be given to him.” Maybe, like me, you’ve at one time been in a training session of difficult material, so you ask a question of clarification only to be rebuked by the leader…makes you not want to ask anymore questions, right? But God’s not that way…He wants us to ask for discernment and insight when we’re struggling. And it says that He will not only give it freely but won’t make fun of us for asking.